or reason #2483 not to live 11 hours from your best friend
You remember the great un boyfriend incident right? RIGHT??? If not go read and be horrified…. Ok. And actually I just went and read that and realized I left some stuff out. Ah well. Whatever.
So. I don’t have a large friend circle down here. Not because I’m an ogre or a horrible monster or horrifically sarcastic… OK maybe the last one.
But really it’s just because I am BUSY! All! THE! TIME! I don’t get out much, partially due to the a fore-mentioned business, partly due to the fact that I don’t like to call people or invite myself to things. But I do have one friend that I would consider myself to be close with. And she is cool. I like her. We are pretty different but still get along pretty good, and I would consider her to be my Best/closest friend in Arizona. Anyways she was the person who originally introduced me to that boy, then when that boy went crazy I basically tried to unfriend him. But the difficult part about this unfriending is that when your friend circle is about 4 people big and they are all connected he becomes a difficult person to unfriend because your other friends don’t need to unfriend him. But you know I still try to steer clear. He has become part of that ever-growing crowd of people who just ANNOY me without me really having any real reason.
Side note: This song haha!
Also this story is taking forever. Dear self: Get to the point
So anyways they are still friends, which is fabulous. go for it be friends, hang out. but don’t get offended when you invite me and I decline. And luckily she doesn’t. But he does. Freak. Today though, I had the misfortune of being with both of them at the same time. OHMIGOSH so annoying. I think he at least 6 times (no exaggeration I swear) kindof aside told her that he needed to talk to her. which you know, is completely obnoxious in any situation. then when we left, cause we drove together, he followed us out to her car, and kept telling us we shouldn’t leave and telling her to stay and just have me and her brother go home without her and he would drop her off later ect. And then me and my friends brother got in the car and they just stayed outside the car talking about… something. Also, It turns out they may be going to conference together. which is unfortunate, because I wanted to hitch a ride to Utah with her but I don’t know that I can do 12 hours in the car with him. However, the Idea of a Ryder/Sadie meet up is appealing to me…
And If she starts to date him which they have both sworn would never happen due to the fact that they are distantly related I will have an even narrower friend circle then before.
Because there is a best friend rule and it is this: If you dated someone and you kissed I will not date them ever.
Also GIRL CODE. It’s there and it’s real and you do not date the boys that I have dated. As it turns out, I’m that girl. Who knew? I actually didn’t but now I do and I gotta say I’m a little disappointed in myself.
Also, Note to past self: When people tell you not to date boys who just text, BELIEVE THEM